You don't need more insight. You need the memory to stop firing.
EMDR Therapy in Santa Monica, CA
See How EMDR WorksÂ


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Build Safety First
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Find the Triggers
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Desensitize and Reprocess
A Three-Phase Process Built for Your Nervous SystemÂ
We establish a safe foundation for your nervous system before any trauma work begins.Â
Your system learns it is safe.Â
We identify which target memories to prioritize, so the work is focused, not scattered.Â
The work has a clear target.Â
We move through the memories directly, desensitizing the charge and reprocessing for safety.Â
The past stops running the now.Â
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The Connection You Came Here for Is Still PossibleÂ
What Happens Next?Â
1. Call (323) 325-5538 or fill out the form on this page.
2. Schedule your free consultation. No pressure, no obligation.
3. We'll talk about how EMDR can help you feel like yourself again, calm and not burdened by the past.
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Payments & Services
Services are billed session-by-session or in packages.
No hidden fees — all costs are explained before you begin.





Trained in EMDR TherapyÂ
I’m trained in EMDR: a structured, evidence-based approach to trauma processing that works at the level talk therapy cannot reach.Â
Integrative by DesignÂ
I’m also trained in IFS, Gottman Method, Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy, and mindfulness/somatic approaches, which means the work fits you, not a single protocol applied to everyone.Â
Warm, Real, and Body-AwareÂ
As a former yoga teacher turned therapist, the East-meets-West approach means the session feels human, grounded, and honest, not clinical or distant.Â
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Why Trust Me as Your Partner in HealingÂ
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Years of Therapy. Same Trigger.
Fed Up with Being Triggered. Fed Up with YourselfÂ
You know exactly where it comes from.Â
The memory, the relationship, the moment things shifted. You've named it out loud, more than once.Â
And yet... the reaction still fires. The tightening in your chest. The flash of emotion before you can stop it.Â
"I know where this comes from. But I can't change it."Â
That gap between knowing and changing is the most frustrating place to live.Â
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The Problem Isn't Your AwarenessÂ
You're not lacking insight. Trying harder isn't the answer.Â
The issue is where the work needs to happen.Â
Talk therapy lives in language. It reaches your understanding.Â
Trauma lives somewhere ELSE — deeper, faster, below the reach of words.Â
"I'm tired of being triggered" isn't weakness. That reaction fires because it's never been directly addressed.Â
You can spend years understanding the alarm. Or you can rewire it.Â
Your next step might already be clear.Â
EMDR Does What Talk Therapy CannotÂ
Talk therapy works. But it works through language, and trauma isn't stored in language. Â
EMDR works directly with the memories driving your reactions… desensitizing the charge in them and reprogramming your nervous system for safety.Â
The memory doesn't disappear. The GRIP it has on you does.Â
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Three Phases to Reprogram, Not Just UnderstandÂ
EMDR is structured work. Here's what it looks like when we do it together.Â
- Release the emotional charge from memories that keep firingÂ
- Build a felt sense of safety in your body, not just your mindÂ
- Stop reacting to old triggers as though they're happening nowÂ
- Access calm that lives in you, not just around youÂ
- Step into situations that used to wreck you, steadier than beforeÂ
EMDR does what talk therapy cannot, because it works at the level where the past is actually stored.Â
Take the First Step Today
Understanding your past is valuable. And there's a point where talking about it stops being the answer.Â
EMDR does what talk therapy cannot. It desensitizes the memories driving your reactions, and reprograms your nervous system for safety.Â
The reaction that fires before you can stop it fires because the original experience was never fully processed. We change that.Â
Stop just talking about your trauma and reprogram it at the nervous system level. EMDR does what talk therapy cannot.Â
You want to feel like yourself again. Calm. Free. Â